My In-Laws

First, they can't plan anything to save their lives and Kevin drops everything that we had planned(all it was was a quiet night in, which we haven't had in 5 days and which this introvert desperately needs to recover, but obviously that doesn't matter to him) to spend time with them. 

I mean, I understand that his mom is here and she lives in New York, yet we just spent a day with her in NYC and he spent Thursday with her.  But he had planned today with her and then what, decides no I'm not gonna do that, instead I'll make my wife feel guilty for not driving half an hour in rush hour traffic to spend time with the whole fam-damn-ily.

But second, I don't think they like me.  Not like they hate me, but that they definitely think that I'm not really part of the family.  That I'm just an outsider. 

Hellooooo!! We've been married for 4 years and together for 4 more.  I'm part of the stupid family.

And every time something like this happens, I feel like they judge me a bit more.  Like, they think I don't like them.  And I do like them, but I need down time and we've already got three nights booked this week.  And we had 4 nights last week and 4 nights the week before.  I'm run down.  I haven't been able to recharge and now, here I am, making this separation a little bigger by just being an introvert.

And on a different topic, this last weekend we went to my sister-in-law's in-laws' cabin and I got all bit up by mosquitoes.  Through my clothes.  Through the bug spray.  All over.  And I itch.  And it is driving me insane.

Sorry for the rant, but I've got no place else to rant. I don't have enough introverts in my life.